Hi GONJAMEDIA, Please keep me anonymous. I was in a relationship with this girl; I’m really in love with her, and a small misunderstanding came between us somewhere in March. Since then, I’ve not set my eye on her to date.
I got to know that she’s been pregnant for 7 months, and her mom broke out and told me of that, but later made me aware that the child is not mine. Although I was still thinking of it, I got rid of it. Recently, a friend of my lady informed me that this girl had given birth to a baby girl, and I was happy for her, so her mom again reached out to me to confirm it.
I am still completing my engineering career in mining technology, so I am out of town, where everyone knows I stay.
Since then, a sister of this girl has been using their mom’s phone to chat and talk to me secretly. She usually updates me on anything in the family, especially my lady and the new-born baby girl, since I am not around Kumasi.
She told me that the child resembles me a lot, and she doesn’t understand why her family is saying the baby is not mine and why her mom is so serious about that. This made me start thinking of this girl again, and it hasn’t been a day that I won’t talk about her and the child.
I was talking with her sister, and when her grandpa heard of the conversation we were having, he went straight to the mother of the girl to ask for the truth and demanded thorough details about the child.
It was then that the woman poured and confirmed that the child was really mine but she forced her daughter to say the child was not for me but rather for one old man. I usually hear them call him dad since he has money
. I am really confused about the situation now, and her sister then added that they are even planning to arrest me for impregnating the girl since I am older than her a bit, which was not prudent enough because I even told them my intentions of taking care of her, but they insisted it was not mine. But now it’s mine. I cant sleep well thinking of my lady and the baby.
I need our advice on this matter because I am afraid to get arrested when I go to see the baby, and I also thought of taking the child away if I got the chance.
Please guys, help share your thoughts on this and what I should do in the comment section.
ANONYMOUS
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GONJAMEDIA
